In Africa, young girls are hardest
hit from the squalor of poverty. They bear the brunch of all human troubles
from infant hood, more especially if they lose their biological mother at a very
tender age.
Leaving them disillusioned,
disenfranchised which often leads them to the pits of hell; uneducated, married
off young sometimes into polygamous marriages, they are sexually abused, contract
HIV, they experience involuntary genital mutilation, inaccessibility to sanitary
ware, economically dis empowered, exposure to early child pregnancies making
them the perfect candidates for obstetric fistula disease in the absence of
proper medical care, all this as if to confirm the prophetic adage, hewers of
wood and drawers of water. In short they are condemned to perpetual bondage.
Are we doing enough to banish
these practices as Africans, do we just speak when we know there are monetary
benefits to be made from advocacy causes for girls?
I know of one or two distinguished
fellow country women living in the diaspora, they head foundations which are helping
some cause. They tweet about attending workshops and seminars, meeting distinguished
persons, attending lavish functions, the list is endless. Without taking
anything away from them I applaud them, for it is grace that is upon them, so
who am I to condemn them.
But, I have a problem, when I ask
them what they are doing to help that girl back home who is in dire need of school
fees, access to sanitary wear, a decent school shoe I never get any response,
surely something is amiss. Maybe it is a case of not letting the left hand know
what the right hand is doing.
We can do better to bring hope.
We cannot eradicate inequality, but we certainly can make
a difference. It is a
fight of conscious.
It takes passion; until you have
experienced the face of poverty you will never fight it to the full. You will continuously
echo pronouncement without actualizing your policies. Our comfort zones will never
deliver.
Not only should we push for
policies that benefit the girl child, the women should drive the agenda.
Can we as African women on an
individual level begin to think beyond educating our biological children and
relatives only? We all can make small sacrifices to better the lives of the
girls in need. It takes just one small step.
As for me I am entering a new
phase of my life, my two daughters will be completing their undergraduate
studies. I have single-handedly educated them. I made sacrifices, denying my own
education, it has been hard and a learning experience.
The journey continues, my children
understand the life of constant battle to attain education, I have raised them
to know that education without humility is miseducation, education with
selfishness cannot change the world. We are very resolved on this.
As they proceed in their next
course of development, they will continue on this path of thought to help/support
a girl child in need how they do this is of their own accord.
God willingly this time next year,
I hope to blog my experiences of uplifting a girl child or girls welfare
for the betterment of their livelihood. I can only count on prayers and good
will to be used as an instrument of change, it is a passion to be fulfilled soon
and very soon for the common good.